Everything
hinged on one decision, whether to speak up or not. Earlier that week I had a
talk with one of my coaches in a golf camp in California, his name was Jeff. He
gave me and the other kids in the camp a talk about dreaming. Jeff spoke about always pursuing our dreams. Well, it turns out that I wanted
to go to a full-time golf academy in the United States. It was July 24th,
I will always remember. School started around August 8th, so going
to a golf academy that year was nothing but a dream. My mom picked me up from the
camp that day. That same day we departed to Mexico. In the airport I was
wondering whether I should speak up or not. I didn’t know if I should tell my
mom that I wanted to go to a golf academy. I thought it was an impossible thing to do. I thought I should not even try, but in the talk Jeff gave us, he said that every time we
want something we should try to get it. After awhile of thinking, I decided I
needed to tell her, and I did. “Mom, I want to go to a golf academy next year”. I
was hoping for a laugh, a giggle, something that expressed disapproval at
least. “That would be awesome, as soon as we get back we should try to find
one” she said. Completely surprised I started thinking of my cousin that went
to a golf academy. He said that it took him 6 months to do everything needed:
school, visa, golf school, paper work, packing, everything. I had a little
under two weeks, and I didn’t even had a school picked out yet. I can do it I
thought, but I knew it was going to be nearly impossible to get everything done
before classes started. I was enrolled in a Mexican school already. It was just
going to be ridiculously hard. All by itself, it was a nearly impossible job.
But I had more complications, I had a school trip to the south of Mexico for a
week, and I had to go. After three days of school picking, while in Southern Mexico
I decided I was going to The Mike Bender Golf Academy and Lake Mary Prep. I
made calls while in that trip. I had phone interviews. I was working hard on my
dream even when I was not home. Two more days later, I was accepted to Lake
Mary Prep. Now, the hard part was getting a student visa. That normally takes
about 3 months, so I was pretty nervous about that. Somehow, my mom made some
calls, and 3 more days later, August 2nd I was booking flights to
Orlando and explaining to my friends and family that I was going away for a
year. As soon as I knew I was definitely going to go to Florida for a year, I
got Jeff’s number and gave him a call. He was confused, he did not quite
remember me. I told him the whole story and almost crying (at least that’s how
it sounded over the phone), he congratulated me and told me to keep dreaming
big. That was August 2nd, 2012. Today, August 20th, 2013,
I am staying in Florida for my second year. Not one single accomplishment,
friend, or improvement over the last year would have been possible without
trying to do what I wanted to do, even when it sounded impossible. Over that
week in the summer of 2012, I learned one of the biggest life lessons I have
ever learned. I understood that everything desired should be attempted, even if
it sounds impossible. Up to this day, my mom tells me she said yes because she did not believe it was possible to get everything done.
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